
Quite a while ago, I introduced my D&D materials to my then 2 year old. He enjoyed doodling on the dry erase mat and really didn’t want to fiddle with the tokens I had made using the famous washer system. It had been some time since then but I never really busted out the materials again. Didn’t really have a reason to as my gaming only recently became Face to Face instead of online.
But with that changing, and with my boy getting older (well.. he’s 3 1/2 now) he began to ask some questions.
Him: “Daddy, What are you going to do while I’m at MiMi’s house?”
Me: “Err..Having some friends over.”
Him: “What are you going to do with them? Play with Transformers?”
He’s all about my 80′s collection of Transformers. Ha.
Me: “Nah. Well they might look at them but we won’t play with them like we do.”
He looks at my clear plastic tub of D&D supplies.
Him: “Is that a game? Are you going to play it with them?”
Me: “Yep. We`ll get some tables down here and play for a bit.”
Him: “I want to play that game with you when I get back.”
Me (Pleased!): “You bet! I`ll look forward to it!”
And we spend the next few minutes arguing about whether or not he can take one of my Transformers with him to his Grandma’s house. Uh… No.. Because he doesn’t want to take a small one that really can’t break. He want’s the big ones. Sorry boss. Anywho….
When he returned the next morning, I had left out the tub of D&D materials. He saw it and was excited to see what it was all about. I cleared off some table space in his play room (I wanted the spare bed room to be a Man Cave of sorts but the Wifey wanted it to be somewhat non-committed to any one style in case we had another child and needed to make it a bed room.. Bah. Fine.)
Last time I did this, the kid was only interested in doodling on the map and no real `play` took place. This time he patiently watched as I unfolded the mat and brought out the markers. Anticipating that he may just monopolize the markers, I quickly brought out the plastic pre-colored Reaper minis I picked up. Bingo! Like throwing meat to a guard dog as you sneak up to the house. It worked.
I took the time to draw a basic map on the map. Some rooms connected by halls. Drew blue lines for doors. Some open, some not. One of the plastic minis was from World Wide Game Day a couple years ago. That became my `good guy`. An unpainted pewter rogue mini became his. I took 4 skeletons and placed them in different rooms. Kiddo watched intently.
“Okay. So you’re out with me. Walking around..and we find a house.. .A BAD GUY HOUSE!” He gets a wide grin on his face and laughs somewhat deeply. I continue, “We should get all the bad guys out of here and tell the police they’re here so they can come and take them away.
I had a d6 with pips for each of us and told him that we would roll it to see how many steps we can take and that we have to take turns. He would roll, call out the proper number by counting the pips out loud but would skips squares while counting the steps out. Bah. No biggie for now. I`m more interested in his creative abilities.
He encountered his first skeleton and proceeded to announce a loud “BAM!” as he knocked it over. Eh. As stated before here, I really want to shy away from violence and encourage more clever means of bad guy disposal that didn’t involve walloping them over the nugget with a club. I shared my concern with him and suggested we instead tie the baddies up so they can’t move. He liked the idea and began making circles around the skeleton with his mini. “I’m tying him up!” Nice
We agreed to drag each helpless skeleton to “the bad guy room” and throw them in a pile.
When we encountered the next one, I stated that my guy was tied up by a skeleton and that I couldn’t move. The kiddo said in response “I’m going to take my knife and cut your ropes!” Alright! Good thinking! This continues for a bit and much fun was had. When I announced that all the doors were locked, he even suggested we climb on the roof (not represented on the map) and find a way in. Rock on!
In closing, I wasn’t upset that the die rolls fell by the wayside part way through the fun. It was his imagination and ability to think in 3 dimensions while looking at a 2 dimensional map that pleased me. We’re off to the FLGS this weekend to select his own mini to play with on a consistent basis.